Ashamed afterwards?

Utter only the words of which we won’t be ashamed afterwards, which we won’t regret saying.  It is easy to discourage, it is far too easy,  all to easy to criticize, to complain, to poke a painful subject. 

Why? Because we react with hate, fear, and defense to the perception of the words that have hurt us, or we FEEL were intended to hurt us. 

Have you every been caught in one of those conversation that all of a sudden took a left turn and you realized that you had been very misunderstood in what you were saying?  It can be shocking afterwards to realize how it went wrong especially when your intentions are so sincere.  But it happens.

Let us try instead to be more quick to see even a small amount of good in a person and concentrate on that.  Let us be more quick to praise than to complain.  Is the words that you spoken to another human being something that you are proud of or do the words leave you ashamed for being so judgemental?

We should be generous in our judgements of others, for we can never really know all there is to know about another.

Recurring life…

“Our very life depends on everything recurring ’til we answer from within.”  Robert Frost

Have you ever notice that you keep experiencing the same things over and over.  We are here to learn the lessons of this lifetime, and until we do, the lessons will continue to show-up.  Only when you find the answer within yourself will the lesson be learned.  It will, only, show-up again if you “forget 2 remember” what you have learned.

The process is ongoing and continual in living, loving and learning.  Enjoy the moments!

Do-overs !

I want to plug  www.tut.com again!  The message I received yesterday morning could not be any more on course with what I’m doing.   Coincidences?  I don’t think so. 

Consider signing up for this personnal message to you very day.  It is great inspiration.

Oh yeah, Derinda, I forgot to tell you…You get as many “do-overs” as you like. Of course, you never know you’re living a “do-over” until it’s over. There are lots of reasons for wanting a “do-over.” Most of all, people want another chance to do things they were afraid to do the first time,  and to say things they were afraid to say. Oddly enough, it’s not their  mistakes they want to rework, but their “unused” minutes. Yeah, pretty nifty, but you should know that it isn’t any easier the next time, and because no two ever go exactly the same, the gifts, opportunities, and loves of one, never appear the same way again. Never. So all in all, it’s better to live as if there are no “do-overs,” so that you won’t need one. But I thought I’d share this with you anyway, to work  in the bits about fear, mistakes, and how precious today’s opportunities really and truly are.  Crafty as a fox,     The Universe